Dear Rita,

I'm 18 and a freshmen in college. My roomate and I grew up together and have been friends since nursrey school. Recently, I told her hometown boyfriend who she "loves" that she made out with a fraternity boy who lives down the hall. Her boyfriend was visiting at the time. My friend got so drunk she left her boyfriend in our room by himself all night and forgot about him. THEN she got home and kissed the boy down the hall! I was horrified and told her boyfriend the next morning. She was so upset she passed out, but never got mad at me. I think she was about to -she said "why did you tell him?!" I was like "WHAT?" I mean excuse me, i'm not the one who did anything wrong, so i said "because you did" and she shut up. He broke up with her and I don't feel bad, her fault. But some people here think I did the wrong thing and are given me the cold shoulder. What do you think?

Honest Abe

Dear Abe,

"Snitches get stiches and wind up in ditches". Who are you, the morality police? You're 18- in college! Away from home and rules! Getting drunk and making out is exactly whats supposed to happen! If you were my roomate I'd shortsheet your bed, punch you out and transfer. If you were my life long friend I'd send myself to the psych ward for an evaluation. You sound like a big fat loser with a serious case of jealousy. Leave your poor roomate alone and go get your own life. I hope you have a "friend" like yourself when you mess up in life, so you can see how it feels. But it doesn't sound like friends are in your future. I wish you luck. Asshole.

Rita.